Ok so I am an admittedly awful blogger.  I try people and I promise to try to be better.  I just always forget I start these things.
I feel that I need to play a little catch up now on my life.  As this says I want a date and I can say I have happily had a few over the course of the past month or so.  Three with a fantastic guy and a couple with people who do not even come close to someone I would consider calling back.  I honestly thought the three with the fantastic guy was heading somewhere, but alas, I always make it to date 3.  This is what today's post is about.  What gives?
I'm not entirely sure what happened with this one guy.  I did not feel like I came off as needy or that I wanted too much from him.  However, after date number 3 I got an email saying we are looking for different things.  Oh really and I would just like to know what that is. I can say I'm not surprised. Maybe I projected I don't go on more then three dates or at least I don't expect it.  I have standards and I don't put out unless I know I'm the only one you will be sharing your bed with.
I was a little down hearted only because I felt I had hit it off with this guy on lots of levels.  I was fine with this not happening, but disappointed that I was losing someone I thought I would be really good friends with.  I have attempted to bridge the friend zone with him.  I have had a little luck, but so far I think he probably just thinks I want to keep him around.  I just would like to know if it is even possible to become friends with someone off of match.com. I also would like to know what it is about me that gets me to date 3 and then nothing.  Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
 
 
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